Online Dating Tips for Women

Online Dating Tips for Women

– The 10 Online Dating Commandments –

Your Guide to Avoiding Years of Online Dating Hell!


Essential online dating tips for women, by NEM Founder, Joshua Pompey

Have you been feeling as if your online dating life is damned to an eternity of dates from hell and messages that are beyond redemption?  Well, don’t worry.  Salvation is on the way.  With the right online dating tips, you can emerge from the darkness, and find the type of eternal happiness that you have always dreamt about in your love life.


But first things first.  You have to avoid the online dating sins that will lead you nowhere, and religiously follow the online dating tips I’ve been leading women to the promised land with since 2009.  Without further adieu, I present to you, the 10 Online Dating Commandments!

The 1st Commandment of Online Dating

Thou shall not be a cliche



In the online world, the competition is extremely fierce.  Read 100 profiles right now and 99 of them will sound nearly identical.  The same goes with the emails most women write.   Quality men are in extremely high demand online.  If you want them to take notice, then make those extra efforts to be original, stand out from the crowd, and demonstrate why you are worth choosing over the rest.


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The 2nd Commandment of Online Dating

Thou shall not be passive

wake up


Those who are passive often wind up on exponentially more bad dates, and will often stay single for years longer than they should.  This is because quality men receive so much attention each week, that often times, they aren’t even performing searches of their own.  While you are sitting around waiting for the man of your dreams, odds are, he isn’t even searching.  Don’t settle for messages from the leftovers who aren’t receiving any attention.   Get proactive, get aggressive, and seek out your future partner on your own.


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The 3rd Commandment of Online Dating

Thou shall not use needy language

Businesswoman pulling a businessman's arm

The words you choose in your writing will reveal a lot about who you are as a person.  Revealing confidence is key.  Common mistakes often include phrases such as, “if you are interested” or “I hope to hear from you.”  This puts all the power in the man’s hands and shows a lack of confidence and potential loneliness.     A quick switch to, “I have to go meet up with friends, talk to you soon!” reveals a woman who is confident, in control of the situation, and has a social life as well!

The 4th Commandment of Online Dating

Thou shall not provide a homework assignment


Online dating should feel fun.  It shouldn’t feel like homework.  If your email takes a man more than 3-5 minutes to respond to, he most likely won’t.  A good rule of thumb is, 4-6 sentences per email, with no more than 1 question in each.  After the second or third email exchange, the sentence limit can increase, but always keep it to one question per email.  For online dating tips on emailing, click here.

The 5th Commandment of Online Dating

Thou shall attempt to be interesting


Boring small talk, winking, favoriting, clicking like buttons, or any version of hey, what’s up, and hi, needs to be avoided.  Remember, you are constantly in competition with many other women in the online world.  If you want a man who is getting a lot of attention to be interested, than make an attempt to actually be interesting.  Otherwise, he will find someone else who is!

The 6th Commandment of Online Dating

Thou shall make attempts to have men focus on more than just looks


If you want to be considered relationship material, a great photo gallery is not enough.  Start with a killer online dating profile that reveals a woman no man can resist.  Then follow that profile up with engaging and charming emails.  Combine these two things with a great photo gallery, and you will be at the top of the food chain when it comes to attracting men online.  On the other hand, if you only focus on the photo gallery, most men will see you as little more than a potential hook up.

The 7th Commandment of Online Dating

Thou shall not take selfies or promiscuous pictures


Most men will never take women seriously if they post selfies or sexualize their photo galleries.  They will instantly view you as a potential hook up.  Avoid these at all costs.  Looking sexy is fine.  But it has to be in a classy way.  For free online dating profile tips on how to write an online dating profile like our NEM Professionals, you can find some great resources here.

The 8th Commandment of Online Dating

Thou is only as good as thy worst picture

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Over the years I have learned that one bad picture can ruin an otherwise perfect photo gallery.  If you have 6 great pictures, but one picture that is either unflattering, or sends a red flag, a great guy will often move on to the next profile.  Not sure if you have a bad picture?  You can always click here and sign up for a free profile evaluation from our world famous experts and we’d be glad to take a look.  The photo gallery is absolutely critical to your success.

The 9th Commandment of Online Dating

Thou must always avoid negative energy at all costs


Don’t ever make lists of what you don’t want in a partner.  No matter what you write, the men you are trying to ward off will still message you.  But guess who you might scare off with this negative energy?  The men you are actually trying to attract.  Just ignore the men you don’t want, and focus solely on releasing positive energy into the online dating world.  This is the surest way to attract positive attention from men.


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The 10th Commandment of Online Dating

Thou shall not try to work miracles alone


The sad truth is, most amazing women either quit online dating, or stay single for years when they could find an amazing match relatively quickly. You can’t be afraid to seek help in today’s world.  Whether its hiring a photographer, getting a professional profile writer, or reading a few books that will help out, you need to be proactive with your weaknesses.  The quicker you make the necessary adjustments, the faster you will find love.

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